The Most Emotional Stories from Thailand
I fell asleep without locking my phone on the last night of the holiday. She saw my Line history, and that was the end of it.
A 54-year-old Frenchman meets Amara, a 39-year-old chef, on his first day in Phuket, and within 24 hours he already has a holiday girlfriend. Months later, in Koh Samui, an unlocked phone reveals his Line history to her: dozens of conversations with other girls that put an end to something that, until that night, had been genuinely special.
She'd step outside to take calls from other guys. At least she was honest about it.
A Portuguese man used the Phuket Sandbox for a no-strings escape and ended up with Som, 32, three months of hidden beaches and one clear rule from day one. Four months later he understood she'd never really stopped keeping her options open.
In three seconds she went from fine to screaming at me through the streets of Chiang Mai. Her cousin explained why.
A Finnish man became a regular customer of a massage girl in Pattaya, and after a lovely trip to Koh Chang and two years of Line contact through the pandemic, one boozy night in Chiang Mai ended in screaming, a packed bag, and a revealing explanation months later.
She suggested I spend some time in Pattaya alone. I didn't know it was a test, and I failed it.
A 54-year-old South African met Noi, 32, near Khao San Road in 2019. She never asked him for money despite her troubles, and the Koh Chang trip was perfect. But one night of drinks in Pattaya without her changed everything, and the pandemic finished it off.
She came over just to tell me the rain was dripping on me. Ten years later I still remember her laugh.
A 56-year-old American recalls his first night in Bangkok in 2013, when a woman named Tuk made room for him beside her at a bar on Soi 4. A brief romance that faded on its own, but whose memory has never stopped following him.
I gave her 400,000 baht and two years of my life. One day she went to a temple and never spoke to me again.
A 51-year-old Canadian recounts how he went from a tense relationship in Pattaya to supporting Lek for two years as she built a food stall in her village near Prakhon Chai, until she vanished without explanation after a temple retreat.
Ryan wanted to build a life in Pattaya. He ended up sleeping rough and died of a heart attack back in England.
A fellow expat remembers Ryan, an Englishman in his late 40s who opened two bars in Pattaya, lost his savings in both attempts, ended up sleeping rough, and died of a heart attack shortly after returning to England with nothing to show for it.
I dodged financial disaster with Charm. With Gop and her daughter I ended up as Papa without ever planning it.
A 54-year-old American recounts how a two-week trip to Thailand stretched on indefinitely: first dodging a woman with escalating financial demands, then building a life in Bangkok alongside Gop and her daughter, who ended up calling him Papa.
350 guests, a village chief consulting his charms for the date, and years later a message asking for a divorce.
A 50-year-old Australian recounts how a 350-guest Thai wedding in Phuket turned into a guest house in Patong, an affair with another woman, bar fights involving the police, and a final message asking for a divorce.
Five years, a house in Chiang Mai, a pickup truck and £30,000. She had my case packed in seconds.
A Mancunian recounts how five years with a Thai woman who claimed to own a hotel in Chiang Mai ended with over £30,000 lost on land, a house and a pickup truck, and a suitcase packed within seconds the night he said no.