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He almost sent 400,000 baht. The only good decision he made was not to.
A 41-year-old British man went in two weeks from a Soi 4 fling to talking dowry and house renovations. He almost sent 400,000 baht. He did not.
A trip to Vietnam taught me to tell lust from love. I went back to Thailand, met a woman 24 years younger than me, and I'm about to propose.
A 52-year-old Canadian, after mistaking lust for love on a trip to Vietnam, goes back to Tinder looking for something real and meets a Thai woman of Chinese descent 24 years younger than him. Three weeks together across Bangkok, Pattaya and Koh Samui become the start of a long-distance relationship that, bumps and all, is still going strong toward a proposal.
I checked her passport, her certificates, years of photos. It all lined up. It cost me $30,000 to learn that wasn't enough.
At 57, living in the quiet peace of a marriage that survived my wife's third affair, I met Pre at a bar in Nana Plaza, Bangkok. She was 37, looked 25, and had a perfectly verifiable story: passport, divorce papers, years of social media photos. Over six months I sent her 30,000 dollars for her family, her studies, and a Denmark visa that never came through.
She raised her palm flat and said "don't speak." Then walked back to the other man without looking back.
A German from Frankfurt recounts how, on his fourth trip to Pattaya, he spent 27 days with Siri, a 28-year-old bar worker, until he saw her holding hands with another man and she gestured for him not to speak. A final goodbye message changed little.
A widower for ten years, I promised a stranger I'd come back. That's how I met Newt.
A 64-year-old New Zealander widower recounts his last three nights in Koh Samui with Newt, a woman he met by chance after keeping a promise made to another girl on the street. No drama, no requests, just company at exactly the right moment.
I went to Thailand on holiday after an eleven-year breakup in Scotland. Nineteen years later, I live with twelve in-laws under one roof.
Graham, a 51-year-old Scot, first came to Thailand at 32, on holiday after a long breakup. In the bars of Koh Samui he met Dao, the woman he'd later marry. Nineteen years, a Thai wedding, and a house built in Isaan later, he lives surrounded by her family and wouldn't change a thing.
The lockdown wiped out the businesses she'd spent twenty years building. She never once stopped calling me every morning and every night.
On a group tour of Thailand in 2019, an Irishman met a divorced woman running several small businesses on Koh Samui. Lockdown forced her to move back to Isaan, but they never stopped talking every single day. Years later, he's planning to propose on his next visit.
The bill said 6,000 baht, no breakdown. The real one was 2,194, and she was already gone.
Before a trip to Bangkok, I met up with a woman from a dating app. She said it was her birthday and took me to her favorite restaurant. The bill came with no breakdown: 6,000 baht. When I asked for an itemized version, she got up and vanished. The real bill, from the kitchen, was less than half that.
Her mother wanted a $35,000 dowry and $2,000 a month just to prove I was serious. I still don't know if I dodged a bullet.
A 50-year-old Australian met Mali in Bangkok, a highly educated woman he spoke to every day for months. When she finally told her mother about the relationship, her mother demanded a $35,000 dowry and $2,000 a month. The story of a breakup nobody considers normal, not even Thai people themselves.
Om never asked me for a penny in two years. Now she runs Thai nights at our pub.
A 26-year-old Brit met Om in a bar on Soi Buakhao, Pattaya, then found her again months later serving coffee off Beach Road. Two years of her never asking for anything, a complicated visa and a wedding later, they now run a pub in England with Thai theme nights.
I dodged financial disaster with Charm. With Gop and her daughter I ended up as Papa without ever planning it.
A 54-year-old American recounts how a two-week trip to Thailand stretched on indefinitely: first dodging a woman with escalating financial demands, then building a life in Bangkok alongside Gop and her daughter, who ended up calling him Papa.
I gave her 400,000 baht and two years of my life. One day she went to a temple and never spoke to me again.
A 51-year-old Canadian recounts how he went from a tense relationship in Pattaya to supporting Lek for two years as she built a food stall in her village near Prakhon Chai, until she vanished without explanation after a temple retreat.